indian muslim women- caged?

being an indian muslim woman...should i consider my self as lucky or unlucky?  how i wish to go out n say.........hey fuckers......i dnt belong...owe to anyone..  i have a life,,,,i wish, i wish , i wish BUT DO U THINK ITS POSSIBLE.....hemmmmmmmmmm
to the world, we muslim...indian muslim to have to carry on the burden of our forfathers.  faithful, sincere, loyality, holly and u just name all the spritual and noble words...but why we were not given the basic needs...the freedom to express our thoughts, to express ourself, the joy of dancing in the rain, the path to fulfill ourdreams as a dancer, to fly and sway along the music.
do we need to block against all the norms rules regulations law? 
WHEN WE WERE BORN WE ARE OBLIGED TO OUR PARENTS RULE, WHEN WE ARE MARRIED WE PLEASE OUR SPOUSE DEMAND AND FINALLY WE SLAVED TO OUR KIDS MERCY.............WHAT A F.....KED LIFE
SO WHEN R WE GOING TO LIVE FOR OURSELF?
i dnt deny there are many indian muslim claimed malay women that have come out n b in the high rank in ths society,,,,but do u think by the end of the day.....they lived to the fullest as any other woman.
why these indian muslim women are caged?
cant we have the equal rite?
we do have brains too sometimes much better than the males....
please stop caging us...........